“I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together,” wrote Lisa Kleypas
. If you have found this kind of connection, don’t let it break over one of these trivial problems. Work hard, and keep your loving bond together. You will both be much stronger for having weathered the storm.